The first step is for you to identify and realize (make real in your experience) who and what you are. You are a non-physical, life energy entity, a spirit. You come from the Life Energy that is the Source, Creator and Essence of all that exists. You are a spark of the Divinity. You are a spiritual entity enjoying a physical experiencie. You do not come from matter, you come from the creator of matter, and you are experiencing matter for the Creator.
Part of the human experience is to completely forget who you are, a psycan, so that you can totally lose yourself in the human game. This is like when you go to the movies. When you go to see a movie you want to forget who you are in your real life life so that you can get swept up in the emotions, excitement, and drama of the movie. If you wake up in the middle of the movie and remember who you are, it means the movie is not very good, it was not able to completely engross you.
We call this aware–will entity that you are a psycan. You are a psycan; you are a spiritual being of will and consciousness.